In line with the latest happenings in
the local showbiz scene, an interesting topic is now the talk-of-the-town at
schools, in the offices, segments at shows like
Umagang Kay Ganda, social
networking sites and so many more.
Is it okay to date the ex of your best
friend?
When the news about the Kim Chiu-Maja Salvador rift broke out, I can
totally relate with Kim. No one needs to ask, I just thought that I don’t think
that any girl would want to be in the position of Kim. It may be okay if the
Maja in the story is a mere acquaintance or a classmate or a former colleague,
but if this was done by the person whom you consider the best among your
friends, it can really get confusing and unfathomable on how could they do this
to you.
I have read some articles, which
commented that this only happened because Kim still has feelings for Gerald. Most
of these articles were written by gays. I still have to see a woman write that
this scenario is okay or a straight man. This draws me into the conclusion that
for gays, they would be fine with it. Is it?
The scenario here is this. Gerald was
Kim’s first love. She has suffered lots of heartaches, and even Gerald admitted
that he has hurt Kim’s feelings over and over again. Kim used to be meek. She
even defended this guy amid the Pauleen Luna issue even when Pauleen herself was posting pictures of Gerald and her together, along with the same friends (cohorts)
whom he would always be seen whenever Gerald would have controversial pictures
out with different girls, both from showbiz and out of the industry.
Kim was able to keep her silence. To get
past the broken-hearted stage, she turned to Maja and told her everything about
this person who has given her biggest heart break. As a best friend, you would
think that Maja would always keep a safe distance from Gerald for hurting her best
friend (the best friend who has showered her with material gifts and helped her
to be noticed in the business where Maja has been stuck as a starlet for a long
time).
Maja may be a friendly person and she
extended the attitude towards Gerald, the one person who made her best friend
feel like a trash at one point in her life. I don’t know what’s the real score
between them. With Gerald’s history and reputation, he would not tell the truth
even if he is already caught red-handed. He was seen with Pauleen at the time
that he was still in a relationship with Kim.
Gerald said. Not true. He doesn't even
know the girl
He was seen going out with Bea Alonzo, while his
relationship with Kim was said to be on the rocks.
Gerald said. Not true. Bea was only his
crush. (Yeah, I know, he was forced to admit the truth after Bea turned her
back on him for not having enough balls to defend her against the detractors
that were throwing the stones at the wrong person.)
He was seen being intimate with a non-showbiz
girl while he was professing on screen his admiration for Sarah Geronimo.
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Gerald said. She was just a fan.
I already saw the teaser for tomorrow's The Buzz episode (January 13), so I'll add it here. Regarding Maja...
Gerald said. I would love to (court her) if she will give me the chance.
Court
talaga? Based on the pictures and recent twits of sighting of these two,
parang di na kailangan ng ligawan e =)
All these images can be found in Google.
And I did not search for anything that relates to Gerald being linked with gay
benefactors. I am not sure that I am ready with what I’ll find and a part of me still believes that he would not do that. Don’t tell me
Maja was not aware of these brouhahas because all you need is to type Gerald’s
name and name of the person whom you think he is dating or used to date, on Google, and
you will see trails of this playboy’s favorite game – girls.
In my opinion, if Maja was a real friend
of Kim, she would not dare date or even think of getting close to Gerald.
If the Gerald in the story was part of a
girl-boy romance that ended because they realized that they did not click, but
parted as friends and the girl still regards the boy highly, then I don’t see
anything wrong if the best friend would later on enter the scene. The former
girlfriend would even try pairing up the two if she believes that they are more
right for each other.
Well, as we all know and also Mr.
Google, the Kim-Gerald romance did not end the typical way. One was left badly
hurting, while the other just went on doing what he does best – girl hunting.
To make the story more complicated, Maja
was a good friend of Sarah as well. They may not be the best of friends, but
they would always have good words towards one another and Maja even showed her
support by watching Sarah’s shows.
If this happened to commoners like me, I
would even be fiercer than Kim. After asking Maja to help me get through my
trust issues, she would be the last person I’d think of who will break that
trust. If I were Kim, I would not plead to the bashers to stop hating on the
two. I will cheer them on. Haha!
On the part of Gerald, knowing that her ex girlfriend is the best friend of his current eye candy, he would have the decency not to make the latter fall for him, if he was sincere in saying that he was sorry for hurting Kim in the past. Well, I guess that decency is not part of Gerald's vocabulary.
I have read somewhere that Sam Milby
asked John Pratts’ permission before he started dating or asked Shaina Magdayao
out. The case here is that Shaina gave John a bad heartbreak for dumping him to be
with John Lloyd Cruz. It is just that John also has the image of being a
playboy, so I guess, he would not really mind this development.